Wednesday, March 30, 2016

Wedding Planning Stress?!

This was recently posted by someone I follow, The Overwhelmed Bride, and is so helpful and true --


Whether you had two years to plan or just two months, planning a wedding can get stressful. So here are four of our top tips on how to prevent wedding planning stress:

1. Let the engagement sink it!

Once you get that beautiful rock on your finger, don't plan just yet. Yes, all of your family and friends are going to ask "When is the big day?" and "Where are you going to tie the knot?" but let all of this fly right past you and don't let it make you anxious. For at least a week, sit back and just enjoy this happy time in your life. And then you can jump right into planning after that :)
ways to prevent wedding planning stress

2. Set your wedding date a week before it actually is...

Confused by this? Probably. But I'll explain.
After you've had that week of down time after your engagement, we suggest you jump right into planning. Get your vendors booked, get the DIY crafts done and don't wait "because you have so much time." Why? Because it is always better to be done and ready to go and to be able to enjoy the duration of your engagement!
So no matter what you do, leave AT LEAST a week before the wedding to do nothing except sit back, relax, and enjoy this time in your life! And if you think this is not going to be possible, set your wedding planning timeline and wedding date in your calendar a week before the wedding day actually is. And that way, you'll have no choice but to be done a week early.

3. Date your partner...and throw out the wedding talk.

Now more than ever before, it is important to continue those date nights with your fiance. And that doesn't mean going out for a glass of wine to go through the wedding budget. This means a date night - just the two of you with no wedding talk. After the wedding, dating will become an imperative part of your marriage in order to keep that spark alive and guess what? There won't be any wedding to talk about any more.
So go out, have fun, and forget about the wedding every once in a while.
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Kreate Photography

 

4. Remember that there are no rules when it comes to weddings. 

You may have been told that you "have to host the bar" or that "you need to have wedding favors" but when it comes to weddings, there are no have-to's or musts. You can have your wedding however you want it and believe me, there is probably someone else who has done it that way before too...so you're not alone.
Do what you want, stick to your budget, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Just smile, nod, and let the unwanted advice fly in one ear and out the other. Because it's your wedding day and if it's just how you like it, then it's exactly the way your wedding should be!


Thank you for your wonderful blog posts, www.theoverwhelmedbride.com!


Be in touch with Events by Lexi if you are looking to have a stress-free wedding day!


Wednesday, March 9, 2016

Romantic Garden Wedding!

Bride Alison contacted Events by Lexi in June of 2015 to provide wedding day management/coordination services for her September 2015 wedding to Chris!  She knew exactly what she wanted for their dream wedding, and as you will see, added so many lovely touches to it to make their "romantic garden wedding" just perfect for them!

Because of the many wonderful providers they had already chosen, it made coordinating their wedding day that much easier!  We all worked well together as a team to make sure every moment of their wedding unfolded exactly as they wanted it to!

With a guest list of 78 family members and friends, Alison & Chris' wedding was lovely, intimate, and romantic -- a wonderful celebration of their love for each other!

Dad's hug of love after seeing his beautiful daughter as a bride!




Beautiful floral arrangements, with lanterns and candles adorned the ceremony space and the guest tables, which added just the right touch for this romantic garden wedding theme!




Alison found and created some fabulous signage 
for the wedding day!



The favors for the evening were little make-it-yourself bags of lavender!


         


The processional from the Mansion to the gardens for the ceremony!







  

Beautiful backdrop for the wedding!

 

An emotional groom!


And, an emotional bride!





Lovely and personal ceremony!



The kiss!!


A gorgeous evening for pictures on the grounds of Glenview Mansion.


Head table decor!


Inside the Mansion on the wonderful staircase!

 

First dance by the new Mr. & Mrs.



Groom Chris tenderly watches the daddy/daughter dance -- Alison and her emotional father, as they share this special dance to "I Loved Her First".



Time for the caramel apple station -- quite a hit with the guests!



Dancing the night away!



Cutting the cake as husband and wife!


This was my third event at Glenview Mansion and it was just as wonderful as the other two events! 


Thank you to these fabulous providers with whom I enjoyed working!

Men's attire from Jos. A. Bank
Bride's gown by Betsy Robinson
Thank you to Alison and Chris for asking all of us to be a part of your wedding day!

Best wishes as you continue enjoying your happily ever after!