Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Spending Smarts!

A recent sidebar from Martha Stewart Weddings magazine talked about "spending smarts" and suggestions for a budget-friendly wedding!

Venue -- choose a location that can accommodate both your ceremony and reception to save some money on more than just the venue, such as rental fees, decor, and guest transportation!  Also, sites that host weddings will often times already have chairs, tables, a bar, and maybe even linens already built in to the price.

Date -- every location has an off-season rate, and getting married during the off-season time can save some significant funds!  The day of the week also matters -- Thursday, Friday & Sunday weddings typically cost less than those on Saturdays!

Food & Drink -- serve the meal family style to cut down on waste.  Rethink drinks and serve wine and beer only.  If possible, buy your own alcohol.  You may still pay a corkage fee, but it is usually the less expensive option.  And, many liquor stores will allow you to return unopened bottles/cases after your wedding.

Flowers -- buy once, use twice!  The same blooms that decorate your ceremony space can be re-purposed as decor for the reception.  For the best prices. focus on varieties that are in season such as tulips in the spring and amaryllis in the winter.

Honeymoon -- it's never proper to ask for money, but you can request help with a trip through sites like honeyfund.com.  Also, if you have a traditional registry and wind up not receiving everything on it, check in with your stores -- many may offer to sell you the remaining items at a discount!

What is your favorite trick for a budget-friendly wedding or event??!


** Thank you to www.marthastewartweddings.com for sharing this information!! **

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Doing this will customize your event while saving you money!!!!

This post is from Natalie Bradley, a wedding stylist I follow -- 
I wanted to share it for the great information she provides!

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The planning secret she shares is . . . . . . .
It’s all about coming up with a theme and adding lots of details to your event!







So today, let’s take it another step forward because this truly is the biggest secret to creating a custom event that guests will remember for years to come. Plus this step in the planning process is so very essential to keep you from wasting money. Because when your ideas are a bit scattered, you never know what to buy, where to buy, and when to pass. 

One of the first things to do is to find your inspiration and put it on paper. As much as I love Pinterest, when it comes to planning and designing, it adds to the overwhelm if you don’t use it wisely.  So for those of you who have discovered Pinterest, it can be a wonderful resource to add to the mix, but make sure you follow this step-by-step process to take your celebration to magazine-worthy levels.

LOVE this from www.eleganceandenchantment.com

There are literally endless possibilities for your planning inspiration, which is even more reason to get your ideas organized. Otherwise they’ll stay as great ideas without any actual realization.  The biggest problem I see is interesting. It’s not a lack for inspiration, but rather too many great ideas that are all over the place. When this happens, your event feels chaotic and seemingly disorganized for guests, hence mediocre parties that cost way too much being created all the time

My suggestion that eliminates a lot of stress around this and helps you get mentally organized with your design at the same time is to have a “tear-out session”. Get a stack of your favorite magazines. They can be local, bridal, foodie, fashion, design, lifestyle, or even catalogues. It really does not matter as long as you have a stack of publications that you love in front of you. (Again, you can also do this on Pinterest but make sure to print out your board later.)

The key to doing this for it to truly work for you is to not think about any of your images while tearing from the magazine. If you like it, simply rip out the page and add it to your inspiration stack. Don’t analyze it. Don’t judge your choices. Just tear. You can assemble images of food, flowers, decor, paint colors, furniture, atmosphere, or even attire.

Now once you have finished ripping out (and printing your pins from Pinterest), go back to the stack and examine each page more closely. Look at what strikes you from each picture. Is it the color scheme, the lighting, tablescapes, linens, chairs, or the overall mood? Make notes accordingly on each page (I prefer stickies personally) about what you love so you can come back for final editing.

Look for commonalities that are not always obvious at first. So with your images spread around you with notes on each page, look for recurring elements. For example, you may have chosen invitations, tables, vases, decor and platters that are all square. Or you may have a need for sparkle, glitter and glamour in every single picture. What are your unifying elements that start appearing from your pages?

There’s always something, so don’t panic or make this more complicated than it needs to be. Even clients who think they have no theme always do! It can be very subtle, like a shape, color scheme, texture or lighting. Or it can be over-the top, including a branded image for your event, custom event furniture and other details to reflect your beautiful inspiration. Everything is perfect; there is no right or wrong to having your theme set.

The final step is to edit down your inspiration stack. You want to pare this down to a few images; usually about ten to fifteen pictures are perfect. This will become your soirée’s inspiration board.


another fabulous inspiration board example from www.eleganceandenchantment.com/

Put all your inspirations on a poster board or bulletin board devoted to your event. Most people don’t want to get as tech savvy or polished as these beautiful inspiration boards when planning smaller events, but that’s okay. Poster board or bulletin boards would just fine too! (Think photo collage circa eighth grade and you’re golden.) You have a theme and you’re well on your way!

Because you have done that work, your theme simply becomes the realization of all these great ideas! It enables you to translate your vision into a reality within your event. A celebration with a clear theme flows effortlessly and beautifully from one element to the next. Every single detail of your gathering should reflect your theme. This is what the pros do and this is what will make your event memorable.

Working from this inspiration board will keep you from falling old routines you’re bored with and it will also make your party feel professionally designed around you while saving you so very much money! This is such a simple and important step in the planning and design process that is probably the most overlooked process. Have fun getting inspired this season!


© 2003-2013 Soirée! Ltd./Natalie Bradley Events
Southern Event Planner & Designer Natalie Bradley publishes the “Soirée Secrets” blog filled with secrets, tips and how-to's for planning your fabulous event. Get your exclusive inspiration, tips and tricks at http://NatalieBradley.com. Soirée by Natalie Bradley Events is an event planning and design company based in Athens, serving Northeast Georgia, the Carolinas and select destination locations.


Tuesday, October 29, 2013

How to have the perfect holiday party!

The 2013 holiday season will soon be upon us!  For those of you who are thinking about hosting a holiday party for your staff, families, friends, and/or neighbors, here are some tips on how to have a fabulous party!  




Have you started planning your event?  If not, get a date on the calendar soon!  If there are not any more December dates available at your venue, hold your party in January – as a great way to kick off the new year!  Often times, venues and other providers will have better prices as January is an “off-season” month for parties!  Also, keep in mind that holiday parties don’t need to be held on a Friday or Saturday!  Thursday nights are popular and can be less expensive!

Here are a few ideas and trends for a festive and fun this holiday season:
 
Host a small-scale function -- host intimate meal/parties, by department.  This can save money overall and the intimacy in a smaller group setting can be more meaningful.

Full-Service Event Venuewhile hosting the event at an off-site and unique location can make for a fun setting, it also can require you to bring everything in – food, rentals, etc.  Opting for full-service venues where china, silverware, glassware, linens, set up, breakdown, food and beverages are all provided on-site can actually be a cheaper option!

Decorations One event designer in Boston has said that the r
ich, deep shades of red will be big this holiday season, and touches of sparkle will stay strong.  Also trending this year is emerald green, Pantone’s 2013 color of the year!  You can also opt for a subtler color palette, mixing silvers and whites with shades of grey for a cool, wintery look.  Some companies look to include room for lighting and rentals once again, but when it comes to tabletop centerpieces, hosts are looking for simple floral arrangements or lots and lots of candlelight.  Many clients are choosing lighting over flowers as it can create more of an special atmosphere  versus a big flower arrangement.  Some clients just want simple—greenery and potted plants with twinkle lights    In addition to candles and programmable lighting, one of the easiest ways to transform a room and make a statement this upcoming season is linens, as companies expand their inventory of patterned and sequined options!

Taste-CenteredThis year’s focus is on nicely presented and tasty food!  Try serving heavy hors d'oeuvres or tasting stations such as a macaroni and cheese bar or a potato bar, a burger and chicken slider station. Work one-on-one with the chef(s) to develop a custom menu that emphasizes fresh, locally sourced, and seasonal fare.  With stations, people will be encouraged to move around and mingle with each other in this kind of setting.  Guests don’t want to sit down the entire evening for a banquet-type dinner!  They want to move!  You can also include more free-flowing seating -- more dynamic and better for interaction. A ­less-structured mix of conversational settings—such as high-tops, tables in various sizes, and lounge areas with a cozy feel—encourage ­interaction and make the most of available space.  Also, guests like to see a chef creating a little masterpiece just for them. Use small plates and then everything is more interactive and focused on presentation!  A New York-based company passes out tasting plates from trays strapped on a roving server -- wearing “walking” mac ‘n’ cheese stations that allowed guests to grab an individual serving of the cheesy comfort food, then choose from D.I.Y. toppings, including jalapeños, bacon, and fried chicken, right on the spot!   For dessert – an economical option can to be offer your attendees a boxed dessert and to-go coffee in branded cups at the end of the night.  Takeaway desserts can also be creatively worked into tablescapes as a design element to liven up tables and save on the decor budget.   Other than the popular option of cupcakes, expect to see whoopie pies, macaroons, gourmet marshmallows, doughnuts, pie slices, or berry crumbles in portable containers!  Full open bars are being replaced with beer and wine and one or two signature cocktails, which can save on cost as well as possibly limit the amount of alcohol your attendees drink. 

Interactive Activities -- The trend is shifting away from the drunken holiday parties and more toward parties that are structured around team-building yet still very entertaining. Murder Mystery dinners is an example of a great team-building activity for a party!  Also, providing rolling entertainment such as strolling magicians to entertain guests during the evening would be a great addition!  There are also companies that provide live statues – they can come to life at the most unexpected times!  Have a photo booth! 

Time of Day Because an evening activity can cost more and often lead to more drinking, hosting a holiday party during lunch hour is still an effective way to celebrate with employees, improve outlook, while staying within budget and omitting the alcohol.  This would work great for a department party, or event for the entire company. Bring in someone who can teach a class like a mixology class, cooking classes, etc.  A lunchtime or afternoon event will allow your staff to have some fun and be working on team-building as well!  The only drawback is that spouses and/or significant others may not be able to attend the event.

Don’t forget to send holiday cards to your clients and staff – a way to show goodwill to all (and a good PR move!), and so they know they are appreciated!  While e-cards may be easier to send, try to avoid that form a communication for holiday cards!  If you are so inclined, get your cards from a charitable cause you support to show its mission and work.

As always, the holidays is a time of giving to those less fortunate.  Having a way to Give Back
to the community is always a plus.  If your budget is tight and you are not able to give employee bonuses to your staff, show your appreciation of them by donating to a local food bank.  You could also place a container at the entrance of your venue for employees to drop off items for those who are in need --such as non-perishable food items and/or toys for children. 
Send the message that you are thinking of others and remembering what’s important about the holidays. 

The focus of your holiday party for your employees tends to now be centered around the goodwill of those with whom you work and those around you.  Quality food, unique venue, special entertainment or an element of surprise outweighs spending a lot of money! 

Best wishes for a safe and happy holiday and a wonderful 2014!


For more information about planning and coordinating your event, please contact me at 410-978-2048 or visit my website at www.eventsbylexi.com.


Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Destination -- Florida!

September started off so nicely with a trip to Orlando, Florida, for my husband to officiate at the wedding of Caitlin Metzger & Ryan Lavrusky.  We've know Caitlin for about 18 years and were honored to be included in the wedding in this way.  We were so excited, too!!!  Despite the rain that moved the ceremony inside the building, it was a beautiful wedding for this young couple.  

The happy couple at the rehearsal dinner at Bella Tuscany.

About 85 friends and family gathered at "The Pines of Windermere" to share in this celebration with Caitlin & Ryan. Not a dry eye in the place as we remembered Caitlin's mom, Lori, and knew that she was with Caitlin in her heart and through all the laughter that was shared that day.  Lori would be so proud of her daughter and the lovely woman she is becoming!

Caitlin's aunts Michelle & Annette were making sure everything went as planned and the wedding coordinator in me was ready to help with whatever was needed that day.


They were able to take a few pictures outside between the raindrops!


Caitlin & Ryan with Caitlin's brother, Nathan, and her father, Phil.


Recapping their story.


Who gives this woman to be married to this man?!

Prayer over Caitlin & Ryan as they share in this new life together!

Water ceremony -- water from where they each grew up, 
combined now to use for their children's baptisms.

You may kiss your bride!!

First dance as husband and wife!


After the wedding festivities one day and a pool party the next day at Caitlin & Ryan's apartment complex, our family was able to enjoy extra time in Florida and went to WDW's Magic Kingdom and SeaWorld!

Caitlin & Ryan -- we wish you many, many happy years together!  


Thank you,
Lexi





Saturday, June 22, 2013

Real Wedding -- Intan & John's Spring Wedding!

On Saturday, April 20, Miss Intan Purwanti became the bride of Mr. John Limbacher on a beautiful spring day!  Their black and white themed wedding, with pops of red and yellow (yellow as a nod to John's favorite team, the Pittsburgh Steelers!), was very simple and elegant!




The lovely and heartfelt wedding ceremony was at Rockville Christian Church.






Reception was held at Woodlawn Manor -- a beautiful setting for a spring wedding!










Beautiful father & daughter moment.  He was beaming with love for his daughter!



Guests were out on the dance floor having a great time!!!



Thanks to these wedding professionals for providing their services for this wedding:
The Savory Spoon Catering Co., www.thesavoryspooncatering.com
Woodlawn Manor, www.montgomeryparks.org
Zareth Acosta Photography, www.zadesignz.com
Blossom and Basket Boutique, www.blossomandbasketboutique.com
DJ Don Entertainment, onemildol@msn.com
5iveStart Media Productions,www.5starvideo.com
ZBest Limousine Service, www.zbestlimo.com







Friday, May 10, 2013

How to Avoid Disaster!!

In the Winter/Spring issue of Washingtonian Bride & Groom, there is a great article called "Weathering the Storm" about avoiding natural disasters!

With the hurricane season officially starting, here on the East Coast, in less than a month, anyone hosting an event during the summer and early fall months really should be considering a "Plan B"!!

Most of the hurricanes typically affect those locales along the coast, but even in Central Maryland, we have been exposed to the force of hurricanes and strong weather!

The magazine article offers these questions to ask your venue and wedding /event professionals that you have hired for your special event!

1.  Ask the venue whether there is a standard backup plan in the case of low power, burst pipes, or bad weather.

2.  If you are planning an outdoor affair, always have an indoor location locked down and the means to make the switch.  Your wedding/event planner should handle these details, once set, not you.

3.  Make a list of all of your guests' contact information -- include emails, land lines, and cell numbers -- and have extra copies so you can delegate a phone tree if necessary.

4.  Be direct when asking your caterer, coordinator, and any other event professionals whether they can provide their services should the need for a contingency plan arise.  Better to hear a "no" up front than on the day of the wedding, in the midst of chaos!!

The article goes on to say that really the most important thing is not to "freak out" if an unforeseen disaster does put a dent in your plans!  Just know that at the end of your wedding day, you will still be married to the one you love and cherish -- and will have a great story to share with your grandchildren!!!

Comment below if you had a disaster (or near disaster) occur that changed your wedding or event plans or if you have any special "Plan B" plans for your upcoming wedding or event!!!


Thank you to www.washingtonian.com "Bride & Groom" for this information!

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Winery Wedding!

We were able to attend as guests (!) a small wedding at a winery in Virginia earlier in early March.  While my husband performed the ceremony, it was so nice to be there as a guest and not as the coordinator!  The bride thought of everything and it was a beautiful, intimate affair!

The Early Mountain Winery in Madison, VA (near Charlottesville) provided a romantic setting for this wedding. A beautiful, sunny day matched the sunny disposition of all who attended!  The afternoon setting sun provided perfect lighting for pictures and the flow from late afternoon into evening. 

With about 30 people in attendance, the room was filled with love for Brook & Eugene as they shared their promises to each other in marriage.


 
The wine barrels flanked the fireplace for the focal point of the ceremony. 
On one were pictures of loved ones with a memorial candle and the other held the unity candle.
 

 
Placecards followed the theme of rustic charm.
 
 
 
One of a matching set which were placed at the entrance of the aisle that
Brook and her father walked down.
 
 
 
The other side of the ballroom area was set for the dinner reception.
 
 
 
Beautiful cake!!
 
 
 
 
The hallway area which joined the winery to the ballroom was a perfect location for the cocktail hour before the wedding and then for guests to pick up favors at the end of the evening!  Brook and Eugene provided personalized bottles of water, small bottles filled with mint M&M's in their blue & white colors, packages of red licorice, individual tea bags, mason jars with hot chocolate mix already measured out (just add hot water!) and monogrammed paper bags for easy carrying!
 
 
Thank you to Brook and Eugene for a beautiful wedding!
We were delighted to a be a part of this special day!
 
 
 
 

Thursday, March 7, 2013

Rustic Chic and Traditional!

Bride Caitlin Vandegrift and groom Jake Brandenburg were greeted with a beautiful day for their August 2012 wedding.  The ceremony was held at Christ Reformed United Church of Christ in Myersville, MD, and the reception was at Thorpewood in Thurmont, MD.

 
Adorable ring bearer and flower girl getting ready to walk down the aisle!
 
 
 
The Bride & Groom enjoying a quiet moment after the ceremony!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Colors of navy blue & coral looked beautiful with the rustic setting of Thorpewood!
 
 
 
Everyone enjoyed the music provided by Shew-sical Entertainment!
 
 
 
The happy couple has bought a house and are enjoying getting settled into their happily ever after!!
 
 
Professionals who provided services for this wedding were:
 
Photographer, Kelly Hahn Photography
Reception Venue, Thorpewood
Catering & Desserts, Canapes
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Friday, January 18, 2013

Romantic Wedding!


Happy New Year to you all!!!  I send my best wishes to you all for a wonderful 2013!  Hope it's aready off to a good start for you!! 

One of the beautiful weddings I had this past fall was in late September in Frederick, Maryland.  Megan Richter became the bride of Kevin MacCauley.  Getting ready at her home, Megan was so excited to share this day with her friends and family!  With an adorable flower girl dreaming of her own wedding day as she gazed at Megan, the bride and her attendants enjoyed spending that time together before the wedding!


      
         
       
 
 
Megan & Kevin exchanged their vows on a lovely September afternoon at St. John the Evangelist Roman Catholic Church in downtown Frederick.  Family friend on the groom's side, Father Mick, officiated at the service. 

 
 
 
Pictures were done outside at the reception site while guests enjoyed cocktails and appetizers on the veranda overlooking the golf course and enjoying the warm September sunshine!






Beautiful setting for this reception --
the colors of champagne, ivory & black looked great with the room decor!
 
 
 

Such a happy bride and groom!

 
Enjoying dancing to great music!!



Friends visited the photo booth!!
 
 
This truly was a beautiful wedding -- and the couple is now enjoying their happily ever after!
 
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From the bride: "Lexi is incredibly personable, professional and thorough, leaving no detail behind.  She's extremely knowledgeable about all wedding day aspects and has expertise in both ceremony and reception details.  Most importantly, she felt like a partner in the wedding planning process. My mother and I were able to relax and enjoy the day without worry because we trusted Lexi. We highly recommend Lexi, she's amazing!"
 
Thank you, Megan and Kevin for allowing me to a part of your very special day!
 
 
Other wedding professionals who were part of Megan & Kevin's wedding were:

Flowers created by Ory Custom Florals
Photography and Photo Booth provided by Susan Solo Photography
Reception Location & Catering Musket Ridge Golf Course, Myersville, MD
DJ and Lighting from Brian King Productions
Cake created by Angel Cakes and Cupcakes
Invitations and Printed Menus by The Organized Bride 
Guest Transportation by On the Town Limousines